General Discussion
So I will probably get a lot of grief on this post. That's okay! Because not only am I redhead! But I am a proud Jew with a really big mouth. I know I'm opinionated and I like it that way.
First and foremost my sweet ladies please do not start coming at all at once. Remember this is my opinion. And I am fully capable of having my own opinion on these matters!
1. Should women of an elegant new nature decorate themselves with tattoos? My honest answer to that is no. If you're going to break away from the norm of society. And create a new Elegance, soft beautiful Womanhood. I don't feel tattoos would benefit the woman's skin. Now this is only my opinion. There's many that would disagree with that answer. And that is okay! Let's think about this one thing before I drop thissubject though. God gave us this beautiful sensual body as a temple to God but also as a temple to the one man . God gives us a special man in this world divorce sometimes more than once in a lifetime especially it has happened more than once in my own lifetime😁🫢😜 nonetheless it is meant to glorify God and man. So when we are tattooing ourselves up are we glorifying ourselves or are we glorifying God and that one special man? Think on that?.
2. Should women cuss? No. I sometimes find myself letting a cuss word come out. I used to never ever ever. I miss that girl. Lately I've been so stressed out. I need to get back to the basics. The basics of my Elegance. I feel like the Elegance of my inner person is me holding myself higher than what I see in the world. So if the world thinks it's okay for a woman to cuss and the Bible says that cussing is foul. Then no I don't think a foul word should come from an elegant woman's mouth. That was a very easy answer! These are not answers because I'm a pretend Christian. Or pretend person. These are answers because I hold myself at a higher level. And I think anyone can do that.
3. Does a woman have to be a housewife i e cook clean Etc? Absolutely utterly not. Look ladies I spent my entire life being that. Trying to impress the man I was married to at the time. And I was married to two different men during those years. Let me tell you those were the worst years of my life. I work the best as a business woman. With my mind is working and my heart is going. Housework is the worst drag for me. I enjoy cooking when it's on my terms. I enjoy cleaning when it's on my terms. I have a fantasy of a happy life romantic life. Of being Swept Away. And we'll see if that happens. Until the faithful day!
4. Should women drink? Well if it's a beer? That thought is disgusting to me. If it is an elegant cocktail or a mixed drink I say absolutely. There is no reason at all why a woman shouldn't be able to relax and have fun just like a man can.
5. Should a husband and wife share their own bank account or should a woman have her own finances? I actually have put a lot of thought into this for my own self. And I can see positive news on both sides. Your own finances can give you a lot of Independence and assurities. While if you're married if you share a bank account that can give you a sense of love and peace. Security. I have been through marriage of 10 years where we never shared a bank account. For some people that is just fine. For me it said I was single I was never a part of him. And it always hurt me. So those are the things that both the wife and the husband should think about. Emotionally how would it impact you.
Thank you so very much for listening to my Chit Chat! This began a chit chat on cosmetics and ended up a chit chat on life! Shalom and may God always be with you!